As parents, the days between Christmas and the New Year often feel quieter. The decorations may still be up, the routines haven’t fully returned, and there’s space to reflect on what the season has held for our families. We begin to look ahead, even as we’re still holding onto the meaning of Christmas.
This year, Christmas looked different for our family. Because of a leak in our home, we weren’t able to live there for the past couple of months. While we’re thankful for God’s provision and the people who stepped in to help, there was also a sense of loss, especially as parents trying to create stability and familiar traditions for our children.
One of the most tender moments came with my youngest daughter. She was so sad that she didn’t have her own Christmas tree to decorate. No familiar ornaments, no special spot for the star. Sitting with her disappointment, I reminded her (and myself) that Christmas isn’t something we place in a house or hang on a tree. It’s something we carry in our hearts.
That truth doesn’t end when Christmas Day passes.
The first Christmas itself reminds us that God entered the world in the middle of uncertainty. Jesus wasn’t born in a prepared home or comfortable setting, but in a manger—simple, unexpected, and far from perfect. Yet God’s presence filled that place completely.
“While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son… and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them.” Luke 2:6–7 (NIV)
As we step into a new year, this matters for our families. Our children don’t need perfect surroundings or perfectly planned years. They need to see what it looks like to trust God when things change, when traditions look different, and when answers take time.
Christmas reminds us of where our true security is found and the new year invites us to carry that reminder forward.
So as one year ends and another begins, we are holding tightly to this promise: “Lord, you have been our dwelling place throughout all generations.” Psalm 90:1 (NIV)
May we enter this new year carrying the hope of Christmas with us: building homes marked by love, patience, and faith wherever God places us. And may our children learn, through us, that no matter what changes, God remains steady and near.
By Leo Acosta, HCS Board of Directors Member